Our episode subject this week is better Intercourse very we’re dealing with… the number one intercourse we’ve ever endured! We’re accompanied by Autostraddle journalist, poet, and journalist Dani Janae as we enter some steamy stories with an in-depth conversation with what tends to make great sex good. And in addition we fork out a lot of time on my intimate hang ups that I may or might not have actually completed a lot of manage come early july!

Arrive for the lesbian movie-themed online game, remain your coming.

PROGRAM NOTES

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The 200 Most Readily Useful Lesbian+ Films listing
that Christina pulled the online game from.

+ when you haven’t study Dani’s
Physiology of a Mango
series you actually must.

+
Here is the article
We wrote concerning person We speak about from the episode. It’s just been a couple of years but a whole lot has evolved!

+ summer time has passed and we also however stan Olivia Rodrigo. Watch the
“raw” music video clip
.

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Dani:

The pet and also the puppy happened to be from inside the room so there had been cat-and-dog tresses almost everywhere. And thus, I was positively having an allergic response while we happened to be having sex. Nevertheless the orgasm was like cook’s kiss. It was an ideal, great experience physically.

Christina:

We wonder whether or not it’s one thing towards hives that really included a tiny bit

je ne sais quoi

to that orgasmic experience.

Theme tune performs

Drew:

This is

Hold off, Is This a Date?

Christina:


Hold off, Is It a night out together?

is an Autostraddle podcast everything about, you guessed it, matchmaking.

Drew:

Yay! I Adore online dating. I Am Drew Gregory. I am a writer for Autostraddle, and a filmmaker, and just general trans gay person across the net and… I happened to be probably say world, but it is really similar to Los Angeles and ny.

Christina:

I love this globe-trotting gay character you are facing below in 2021.

Drew:

I would like that. Yeah, it really is for future years.

Christina:

Yeah. Im the different number, Christina Tucker, also a writer for Autostraddle, deranged loud homosexual on the net. Simply style of out here, authorship, becoming gay, performing everything we can every moment to attempt to sort out this life that individuals’re residing.

Drew:

You’re truly doing it. You’re truly operating throughout that life.

Christina:

Frankly, it’s all i could perform. Which is all I have, it is the only option.

Drew:

I absolutely have respect for the effort.

Christina:

The try to stay?

Drew:

Yeah.

Christina:

Yeah. Actually, actually brave of me to even try it. You are not completely wrong, you aren’t incorrect. Could you be thinking about playing a little online game these days, Drew?

Drew:

Oh my personal Jesus, I’m therefore thrilled. Cannot delay to see what you have personally.

Christina:

I’m so glad you said that as you definitely need certainly to state yes, for the reason that it’s section of this package that people’ve produced here. So you could know about the fact that on autostraddle.com, the web site, we have a summary of 200 lesbian movies.

Drew:

I realize of it. I might have written it.

Christina:

You may possibly have. Everything I did is actually extract an array of 10 of these flicks. I kept them to the best 50. I’m going to supply you with the land keywords and phrases as chosen by users on IMDb and you are going to need to do you know what movie really.

Drew:

Okay. I simply want the audience, anywhere you’re, to find out that I am not probably pull-up record. I do believe that is correct, am I making the assumption that’s correct in the way I should be respecting this game?

Christina:

I think which is extremely sincere and that I genuinely believe that’s reasonable. In addition sorts of count on that the is going end up being a thing that one thinks of quite simple for you, I didn’t go too kept.

Drew:

I’ve a dreadful storage, but yes, i will just be sure to set folks up for reduced expectations.

Christina:

Reasonable sufficient.

Drew:

So if i really do really well, its similar sorts of strike all of them out, just in case I do not prosper, are going to love, “Well, she talked about…” Anyways, carry on. Why don’t we start this.

Christina:

Why don’t we start. I will start with pretty common ones and I also are certain to get more certain as we get, because many of them tend to be practically what the film is in two terms. Therefore weare going to you will need to start with a wider experience here.

Drew:

I adore it.

Christina:

Our first movie: medications is the first storyline word. New york, nyc will be the second. Hate crime could be the 3rd.

Drew:

Okay.

It’s All Over Me Personally.

Christina:

Yes, truly! See, we realized you would certainly be capable of this.

Drew:

Great.

Christina:

I completely knew you would certainly be able to perform this.

Drew:

In addition, i simply should allow folks realize that this is certainly perhaps one of the most underrated lesbian movies, therefore really should find it. And Leisha Hailey where motion picture has become my cellphone back ground for a couple of years. Thus merely a fun little fact here regarding of you.

Christina:

We like that. Fine, flick number 2. “not known father,” body organ donor, cemetery, death of child. Oh, she is thinking.

Drew:

I feel like I should definitely fully grasp this predicated on — hold off, as yet not known dad, death of boy, body organ donor. Oh,

About My Mother.

Christina:

Truth be told there it’s, see.

Drew:

Another of my favorites.

Christina:

It is very exciting to see what folks decide tend to be a story key phrase that they have to pull from these movies. I’m additionally not checking out some of the types which are only lesbian for the reason that it seems similar to a gimme.

Drew:

That is how I make a lot of the list since if you appear up lesbian films, everything discovered was actually the old Autostraddle record or some databases that are not extremely comprehensive, so I would in fact search through databases associated with key words of lesbian, lesbian kissing, these specific things like women kissing, these exact things, in order to find motion pictures where they can be not thought of as a lesbian motion picture since they are a little more interesting, or perhaps a little bit much less direct, and that’s how I discovered a number of the movies being now from the number, very full circle.

Christina:

Listen, IMDb keyword phrases to arrive handy for all of us continuously. This one, people moved untamed on this one. Therefore simply likely to review some arbitrary words for you. Hey, whistling, woman, black sports bra, river, stomping out a cigarette, at work crash.

Drew:

On-the-job collision? Oh, I Imagined I’d it immediately after which, well—

Christina:

Cool, in parentheses, the heat.

Drew:

Due to the fact in the beginning I found myself probably state

Foxfire,

then again the at work accident switched me personally upwards. Working crash.

Christina:

Are you wanting a few more?

Drew:

Yeah.

Christina:

Pickup collisions through a fence.

Drew:

Could it be

Miseducation of Cameron Post?

Christina:

It’s not.

Drew:

Because face to face collision might be a really dreadful means of describing any particular one of the gay because you’re attempting to convert to not gayness, attempts to mutilate on their own or does mutilate themselves. That’d be quite extreme, but I didn’t understand with the IMDb thinkers. Okay, hold off, this is certainly tricking me personally up.

Christina:

Are you wanting even more from myself?

Drew:

Truck through a fence. I am sure its something which I’m just not… Yeah, keep working.

Christina:

Reference to a college loan. They’re thus nuts.

Drew:

Hold off, perhaps you have observed this film?

Christina:

I’ve come across this motion picture.

Drew:

Could it possibly be wild that I’m not getting hired?

Christina:

It really is a tiny bit untamed. I am able to present a-year, if you prefer a year.

Drew:

Any time you give me annually, I’ll definitely get it.

Christina:

Okay. 2016 can be your 12 months.

Drew:

2016. Okay, tell me what it is.

Christina:

This is the movie,

Certain Women,

2016.

Drew:

Oh! Yeah.

Christina:

I absolutely thought pickup truck crashes through a fence would produce, but I additionally merely love these people simply pulling-out nouns and just becoming like, “male.” Usually what you believe?

Drew:

Yeah.

Christina:

Okay.

Drew:

That’s outstanding movie. I must observe that once more.

Christina:

It’s. It really is a fantastic flick.

Drew:

Yeah, it really is a very fantastic film.

Christina:

Okay, our very own next film. Kissing whilst having sex.

Drew:

The very best method of both, maybe, you might say.

Christina:

Attraction, dude farm.

Drew:

Could it be

Desert Hearts?

Christina:

Yeah. Thus I was actually like, “Okay, you have got receive that from then on one.” One other one I found myself browsing offer you had been — “nipples” had been the truly prominently highlighted. And that I had been like, “Sure, that’s element of that film.”

Drew:

Jesus,

Desert Hearts.

You understand how there is all of these irritating individuals out there attempting to end up being Shane. Sorry, What i’m saying is, in case you are wanting to end up being Shane, we recognize you. But me, my personal annoying thing is that i am wanting to be Cay. Cay for the reason that motion picture is similar to which just who In my opinion of since kind of lesbian that i do want to end up being.

Christina:

Yeah, that is true, can verify. All right, tend to be we prepared for the after that one?

Drew:

Yeah.

Christina:

Year—

Drew:

Hold off, no, You will find yet another thing to state about

Desert Hearts.

Christina:

Positive.

Drew:

Following the finally time we re-watched it on the summer time, it kind of sent me personally into hook spiral, and I texted this more mature semi-closeted individual that I had sort of started tentatively willing to day or big date whatever, and that has vanished for monthly, and I also had given up on because Really don’t beg visitors to date me. But i recently had been like, “Okay.” We watched

Desert Hearts

and I also ended up being love, “I guess maybe occasionally people have their particular internalized whatever.” And I texted this lady and I also said, “Whenever we never ever satisfy, i believe you’re regret it.” Therefore performed fulfill, so that’s what

Desert Hearts

may do for your requirements.

Christina:

Wow, that’s a very strong recommendation.

Drew:

We most likely should never have came across. We most likely must have only allow it be. But anyways, moving on, then film.

Christina:

Our very own next movie, metaphysics, world during orifice credit — what which means, it’s for you to decide — senior school football, Chicago, Illinois.

Drew:

Oh,

Princess Cyd.

Christina:

There you go.

Drew:

That is another great film. I like that We keep becoming astonished by this number that I’d an extremely powerful hand in position. It isn’t my standing, but i did so have a big state within the ranking and I love it.

Christina:

Yeah. I just wish to be obvious to you personally and our audience — again, We selected from the leading 50, very they are really good ones. Of great ones, these are generally good people. I know Drewshould continuously state this can be a great movie after each one, but—

Drew:

They are good motion pictures, all of you should view them.

Christina:

All right. Short top with heels.

Drew:

Like it.

Christina:

Cock blocked, mini skirt with shoes.

Drew:

I mean, would it be

Blockers?

Christina:

It isn’t. That will be also effortless, i do believe, for

Blockers.

Drew:

I don’t bear in mind any miniskirts, but—

Christina:

Feminine rear nudity.

Drew:

Okay. Wait an extra. Okay, just what the second. Okay, dick blocked, mini top, female backside nudity.

Christina:

craigslist m4m sexting-hmm (affirmative). Split dance.

Drew:

Is-it

Certain?

Christina:

It’s not.

Drew:

No, i’d love some slack dancing scene.

Christina:

I love some slack dancing world in

Bound.

Drew:

A rest dancing world.

Christina:

I’ll present: English lady overseas.

Drew:

English girl abroad? This is exactly a different one where I feel I surely should get it.

Christina:

I will need to supply a pretty evident one sooner or later, sowill assist.

Drew:

Okay, give me personally a clear one.

Christina:

Undercover representative.

Drew:

Is-it

D.E.B.S?

Christina:

It isn’t

D.E.B.S.

Its adjacent to

D.E.B.S.,

brand of movie smart. Discover a differnt one, intrigue.

Drew:

Okay, hold off, there is not that lots of genre movies.

Christina:

You will findn’t, that’s true.

Drew:

Undercover agent. Really, maybe they are making use of the phrase, is-it

The Handmaiden?

Christina:

It is not.

Drew:

Okay, i did not think-so. Undercover representative.

Christina:

Are you wanting the season?

Drew:

I Was Thinking that… Sure.

Christina:

Your season is actually 2017.

Drew:

Undercover agent.

Christina:

I’m very sorry. You’re going to feel very stupid as I state the subject within this one.

Drew:

Oh no.

Christina:

I am actually sorry about that, but that’s variety of exactly the method the cookie crumbles.

Drew:

Oh, it really is

Carol.

Christina:

No, it isn’t

Carol.

Drew:

No, it claims 2015.

Christina:

Yes, I know that. It is not

Carol.

Drew:

But there’s an undercover — the guy, that’s where I became thinking. Okay, what is it? How come it generate myself feel silly?

Christina:

It Really Is

Atomic Blonde,

you dummy.

Drew:

Oh, that is when you look at the top 50?

Christina:

It is. I am aware.

Drew:

Oh, okay.

Christina:

Okay. Offering four even more, you ready?

Drew:

I don’t feel that foolish for the reason that it one I… I mean, i believe

Atomic Blonde

is actually enjoyable, but I do not believe its great. That will not during my individual leading 50. I actually do want globally to find out that i am aware that

Carol

arrived on the scene in 2015. My head damage. I simply wish society to find out that. Anyways, carry on.

Christina:

Society today understands that, the record was shown. All righty: restaurant, sense of scent, novelist, mention of the a hamburger, mention of Larry King, predicated on memoir, alcoholic, theft, lady wears glasses, living alone, destroying evidence.

Drew:

The mention of Larry King is actually—

Christina:

It’s a really odd one.

Drew:

Regard to Larry King, damaging research.

Christina:

Cat.

Drew:

Oh, could it be

Could You Ever Forgive Me Personally?

Christina:

Its.

Drew:

I needed to receive myself. I happened to be actually in a slump here.

Christina:

You nailed it. I think you have got here, In my opinion you positively had gotten here. Okay, three even more, all of our leading three. In my opinion these people are easy for you because I’m sure you.

Drew:

Great, okay, well…

Christina:

I understand, but I’m stating, do you want?

Drew:

Okay, yeah.

Christina:

Mental health, drug overdose.

Drew:

Could it be

Foxfire?

Christina:

No. Photographer.

Drew:

Oh,

Greater.

Christina:

There we get. Tattoo, woman group.

Drew:

So is this

Foxfire?

Christina:

Yeah.

Drew:

Oh, I know

Foxfire.

Christina:

I was like, “Oh, she is going to merely hold guessing

Foxfire

until I just give the woman

Foxfire.”

Drew:

The key would be that i enjoy

Foxfire

and that I keep willing to think of

Foxfire.

Christina:

After all, whomst among us?

Drew:

Angelina Jolie, gosh.

Christina:

All right. This, one of those is—

Drew:

Here is the finally one?

Christina:

This is basically the last one. It is our final any. Church, assertion, family relationships.

Drew:

Could it be

Miseducation of Cameron Article?

Christina:

It isn’t.

Drew:

Will it be

But I Am a Cheerleader?

Christina:

It is, yes.

Drew:

Yes. Comedic

Miseducation of Cameron Article.

Christina:

Jokes on laughs. With the intention that ended up being the game i am calling, How Well really does Drew understand Lesbian films???

Drew:

I really like just how great we are picking out names in regards to our video games.

Christina:

Yeah, that it is mortifying that I even typed that when you look at the name of a Google Doc, the thing that was I thinking? That doesn’t also appear great in my Google Docs.

Drew:

I experienced a very good time and that I’m really grateful that i eventually got to tell all the audience about the films that they should enjoy. And in addition we’ll place the number inside the program notes.

Christina:

Definitely.

Drew:

I’d declare that record has become at a location in which In my opinion you would get some thing out of viewing all 200 films. 1st type of the list, there was some stuff on the website that I found myself not too pleased with. There ‘s still items that i believe that I do not yourself but I think that overall, there’s a particular quality-control after that newest update that I feel happy with and I also believe they are all worth watching.

Christina: